Hospice consists of : Palliative Care, Funeral Planning and Wills
Hospice care is often misunderstood as “giving up treatment.” I prefer to call it “choosing” palliative care or end-of-life support. It encompasses two main aspects: symptom management through medical care and emotional support through end-of-life companionship. For terminal patients, controlling symptoms and managing pain are critical. Comprehensive support often includes social workers, clergy, volunteers, and psychologists who provide assistance and solace to both patients and their families.
Hospice care serves as a midway rest stop, especially for terminal cancer patients, helping them prepare for their final journey. It also provides an opportunity for families to express gratitude, seek forgiveness, share love, and bid farewell. When one family member falls ill, everyone in the household is affected. A negative medical diagnosis often hits like a bolt from the blue; some even see it as a “fall from heaven to hell.” Hospice care not only supports the patient but also the caregivers, offering them much-needed respite.
In Malaysia, organizations like Hospice Malaysia, Kasih Hospice, and Kuching Life Care provide services to terminal patients and their families. For children, the Malaysian Association of Paediatric Palliative Care (MAPPAC) focuses on alleviating symptoms and supporting caregivers. Volunteers trained by such organizations often help with tasks like bathing and grooming, ensuring that patients can maintain their dignity even in their most vulnerable moments.
Imagine how you would feel after three days without bathing or a week without washing your hair. Patients confined to bed often suffer more discomfort due to lack of personal care. While these organisations can’t yet cover all areas of Malaysia, their efforts are gradually making a difference through greater awareness which directly leads to greater participation from the public.
Palliative Care
Do I want to know about the disease or how to estimate remaining days? If I would like to know, I hope to hear from who? If I do not want to know, who can help me to know about these things?
Do I want to discuss in private with medical professional regarding my condition? Or let my loved one do so on my behalf? Normally discussion will touch on financials, treatments, care etc. Some medical teams holds family meetings.
If the disease is at its last stage, I want to continue active treatments or just palliative care?
If I couldn't swallow, would I like to have pipes entering my throat?
If I go into comma, who will speak for me and make decisions?
If I am confined to bed, where I wish to receive care?
When my days are count by days, where I would like to take my last breath?
When my days are count by days, who will accompany me? Who are those I avoid?
If I am confined to bed, what personal hygiene measures I wish to receive?
If I am in my last days, what care I wish to receive?
A New Era of Simplicity and Funeral Care
Funerals are often shrouded in tradition, expense, and stress. The process has long been burdened by outdated pricing structures, hidden fees, and disruptive practices that demand families take time out of their grieving process to visit funeral homes and meet with salespeople. These methods have remained largely unchanged since 1961. But what if we told you that the funeral industry is evolving, and with it comes a new approach that is simpler, more affordable, and more caring?
A Shift Away From Expensive, Outdated Pricing Structures
Traditionally, funeral costs were high and often difficult to understand. Funeral homes would present families with an overwhelming list of services, each carrying its own price tag. Many families found themselves pushed into selecting expensive packages they didn’t need, simply because they didn't fully understand what they were paying for or didn't have the time or emotional bandwidth to shop around. The complex, one-size-fits-all pricing structures led to unnecessary stress and financial burden on grieving families.
However, today’s funeral services are breaking free from these old pricing practices. Funeral homes and services now offer simple, transparent, and affordable pricing. The emphasis is on giving families an honest and upfront estimate of costs without the need for surprise charges. There’s no longer a need to pay for services you don’t need. With clear pricing, families can make informed decisions without the stress of hidden fees.
One of the most frustrating parts of traditional funeral arrangements was the unexpected charges that appeared throughout the process. Families would receive an initial quote for a funeral service, only to find additional fees popping up later in the process for things like transportation, embalming, or other "extras" that weren’t disclosed upfront.
This no longer needs to be a concern. We are committed to providing all-inclusive pricing that covers everything a family would expect. There are no surprise costs or hidden charges at the last minute. This shift ensures that families can focus on honoring their loved ones rather than worrying about a growing bill.
Easy, Stress-Free Online Arrangements
Another aspect of funerals that has been revolutionized is the process itself. The traditional funeral industry required family members to make in-person visits to funeral homes, often in the midst of their grief. These visits, while intended to help guide families through the process, frequently felt like an additional burden.
Today, funeral services are embracing technology to make things easier for families. Many funeral homes now offer the ability to arrange services online, from selecting packages to making payments. Families can take care of all the necessary details without leaving their homes, reducing the need for stressful trips to funeral homes and ensuring that the process can be done in a calm and private setting. These online platforms are intuitive and easy to navigate, making the arrangements as smooth and seamless as possible.
Dedicated Care Teams, Available 24/7
Grieving is a personal and unique process. For many, the emotional burden can feel overwhelming, especially when trying to navigate the logistics of planning a funeral. In response to this, modern funeral services offer dedicated care teams that are available 24/7. These teams of professionals provide not only logistical support but also empathetic guidance through one of life’s most difficult times. Our compassionate experts work tirelessly to ensure that every detail is taken care of, allowing families to focus on what truly matters—celebrating the life of their loved one.
Same Credentials, A Whole New Approach
It’s easy to assume that new funeral services might sacrifice experience and expertise for the sake of convenience. However, the new wave of funeral services combines the same trusted credentials and qualifications that have always been a hallmark of the industry. What’s changed is the approach. The shift towards transparency, affordability, and online convenience doesn’t mean sacrificing professionalism or quality.
The funeral industry is finally embracing a customer-centric approach that focuses on ease, clarity, and compassion. The change is both a relief and a promise to those in need of funeral services: they can now count on a system that prioritizes their emotional and financial well-being.
Funerals no longer have to be synonymous with complexity, overwhelming costs, and stress. Today’s funeral services offer a new approach that is affordable, transparent, and focused on what truly matters—the well-being of the families they serve. With simplified pricing, no hidden fees, the ability to arrange everything online, and round-the-clock support from dedicated care teams, the funeral industry is evolving to meet the needs of the modern world. While the core values of respect and professionalism remain unchanged, the process of saying goodbye is now more compassionate, accessible, and supportive than ever before.
Nirvana Memorial Park: Choosing my final resting place
Have you given thought about where you will be laid to rest after you depart from this life? Would you prefer your remains to be buried, or be eternally remembered at a grand and dignified hall of a columbarium? The choice is yours, at Nirvana’s memorial parks, where there is a wide variety of options available, catering to different religious beliefs and preferences.
There are 14 memorial parks and centres located across Malaysia, and they each have different types of facilities and services. Take a look at what makes Nirvana’s memorial parks special, and consider pre-planning and choosing your final resting place in advance.
It all begins with good Feng Shui
What is good Feng Shui? That’s when an environment harmoniously consists of five auspicious aspects: mountain (also termed ‘dragon’), meridian spot, water source, protective embrace and direction.
Feng Shui dictates many aspects of Nirvana’s memorial parks. The parks and their structures are constructed following the principles of Feng Shui, and every burial plot and columbarium is carefully designed to render good fortune, prosperity and blessings to the descendants from their ancestors.
Maintenance and upkeep of the grounds is also a key factor in maintaining good Feng Shui, therefore, Nirvana has set up a maintenance trust fund, to ensure long-term maintenance of the parks and garden.
Burial plots amidst natural tranquility
Apart from excellent Feng Shui, Nirvana’s memorial parks are set amidst lush greenery, providing a tranquil, serene environment for the departed to rest in peace, and also a lovely place for visitors to reflect and contemplate as they pay their respects.
There are different types of burial plots to choose from. The Royal Family Burial Plot closely follows traditional Chinese thoughts and philosophies, where members of a family can be placed in close proximity, just like how falling leaves always land close to the tree’s roots. Togetherness is the key here, and you can choose to be laid to rest with your loved ones at the end of your journey in life. The design of the Royal Family Burial Plot is also considerably elevated and distinctively grand, adding to the spirit of reunion and in celebration of family.
Also glorifying and commemorating the notion of family is our Family Burial Plots. Individually personalized to convey different family stories, you can choose how the family can be remembered in the future, be it with a poem, or unique, special carvings.
Man and nature come together at our Double and Single Plots. The parks are designed to bring about a harmonious sense, where the landscaping is inspired by the natural surroundings. The regular plots are no less idyllic, letting the departed rest amidst serene nature that soothes the soul and calms the heart.
Inspired by the “Kingdom of Heaven”, our Christian Memorial Garden is a simple yet elegant and dignified resting place catering to those of the Christian faith. Orderly rows of burial plots, a wide selection of beautiful headstone, it is also set in a natural, tranquil and picturesque environment. Our Christian Memorial Garden also has a columbarium set within the vicinity.
World-class columbaria for all
Do you think that memorialising and honouring the departed in a columbarium sounds like it’s lacking in individuality and uniqueness? Think again. Nirvana’s columbaria are simply different. Characterised by supreme architecture of unparalleled magnificence and distinctive designs, they aren’t just rows and rows of walls anymore. Plus, it helps solve the problem of land scarcity.
Choose from columbaria which suits your preference and needs.
Luxurious columbaria, most notably Nirvana’s Ming Palace 3 is inspired by the Lingshan Brahma Palace in China, and doesn’t hold back on its pageantry. Filled with warmth and a touch of opulence, plus intricate sculptures adorning the halls, it makes a great choice for those looking for a luxurious place to call an eternal home.
Mostly white, bright and calm, Nirvana’s modern columbaria make a great choice for those who prefer a place with minimalistic elements. Vibrant, artistic lines set amidst an auspicious environment, the hall itself feels timeless and opulent.
If the outdoors is your preferred choice, and you appreciate ancient Chinese architecture, the multi-million ringgit Oriental Villa, a signature masterpiece of Nirvana Memorial Garden in Semenyih, should be considered. Surrounded by lush greenery and lovely waterways, this place provides a feeling of dignified peace for you and your loved ones.
Nirvana’s memorial parks offer not just a resting place, but also cater to a range of services, such as regular prayer services and enlightenment ceremonies.
Read more about pre-planning for your after-life matters, and consider the options available. Speak to an authorized agent to learn more, or have a virtual tour of Nirvana’s various memorial parks and centres.
Funeral Planning
A New Era of Simplicity and Funeral Care
Funerals are often shrouded in tradition, expense, and stress. The process has long been burdened by outdated pricing structures, hidden fees, and disruptive practices that demand families take time out of their grieving process to visit funeral homes and meet with salespeople. These methods have remained largely unchanged since 1961. But what if we told you that the funeral industry is evolving, and with it comes a new approach that is simpler, more affordable, and more caring?
A Shift Away From Expensive, Outdated Pricing Structures
Traditionally, funeral costs were high and often difficult to understand. Funeral homes would present families with an overwhelming list of services, each carrying its own price tag. Many families found themselves pushed into selecting expensive packages they didn’t need, simply because they didn't fully understand what they were paying for or didn't have the time or emotional bandwidth to shop around. The complex, one-size-fits-all pricing structures led to unnecessary stress and financial burden on grieving families.
However, today’s funeral services are breaking free from these old pricing practices. Funeral homes and services now offer simple, transparent, and affordable pricing. The emphasis is on giving families an honest and upfront estimate of costs without the need for surprise charges. There’s no longer a need to pay for services you don’t need. With clear pricing, families can make informed decisions without the stress of hidden fees.
One of the most frustrating parts of traditional funeral arrangements was the unexpected charges that appeared throughout the process. Families would receive an initial quote for a funeral service, only to find additional fees popping up later in the process for things like transportation, embalming, or other "extras" that weren’t disclosed upfront.
This no longer needs to be a concern. We are committed to providing all-inclusive pricing that covers everything a family would expect. There are no surprise costs or hidden charges at the last minute. This shift ensures that families can focus on honoring their loved ones rather than worrying about a growing bill.
Easy, Stress-Free Online Arrangements
Another aspect of funerals that has been revolutionized is the process itself. The traditional funeral industry required family members to make in-person visits to funeral homes, often in the midst of their grief. These visits, while intended to help guide families through the process, frequently felt like an additional burden.
Today, funeral services are embracing technology to make things easier for families. Many funeral homes now offer the ability to arrange services online, from selecting packages to making payments. Families can take care of all the necessary details without leaving their homes, reducing the need for stressful trips to funeral homes and ensuring that the process can be done in a calm and private setting. These online platforms are intuitive and easy to navigate, making the arrangements as smooth and seamless as possible.
Dedicated Care Teams, Available 24/7
Grieving is a personal and unique process. For many, the emotional burden can feel overwhelming, especially when trying to navigate the logistics of planning a funeral. In response to this, modern funeral services offer dedicated care teams that are available 24/7. These teams of professionals provide not only logistical support but also empathetic guidance through one of life’s most difficult times. Our compassionate experts work tirelessly to ensure that every detail is taken care of, allowing families to focus on what truly matters—celebrating the life of their loved one.
Same Credentials, A Whole New Approach
It’s easy to assume that new funeral services might sacrifice experience and expertise for the sake of convenience. However, the new wave of funeral services combines the same trusted credentials and qualifications that have always been a hallmark of the industry. What’s changed is the approach. The shift towards transparency, affordability, and online convenience doesn’t mean sacrificing professionalism or quality.
The funeral industry is finally embracing a customer-centric approach that focuses on ease, clarity, and compassion. The change is both a relief and a promise to those in need of funeral services: they can now count on a system that prioritizes their emotional and financial well-being.
Funerals no longer have to be synonymous with complexity, overwhelming costs, and stress. Today’s funeral services offer a new approach that is affordable, transparent, and focused on what truly matters—the well-being of the families they serve. With simplified pricing, no hidden fees, the ability to arrange everything online, and round-the-clock support from dedicated care teams, the funeral industry is evolving to meet the needs of the modern world. While the core values of respect and professionalism remain unchanged, the process of saying goodbye is now more compassionate, accessible, and supportive than ever before.
Nirvana Memorial Park: Choosing my final resting place
Have you given thought about where you will be laid to rest after you depart from this life? Would you prefer your remains to be buried, or be eternally remembered at a grand and dignified hall of a columbarium? The choice is yours, at Nirvana’s memorial parks, where there is a wide variety of options available, catering to different religious beliefs and preferences.
There are 14 memorial parks and centres located across Malaysia, and they each have different types of facilities and services. Take a look at what makes Nirvana’s memorial parks special, and consider pre-planning and choosing your final resting place in advance.
It all begins with good Feng Shui
What is good Feng Shui? That’s when an environment harmoniously consists of five auspicious aspects: mountain (also termed ‘dragon’), meridian spot, water source, protective embrace and direction.
Feng Shui dictates many aspects of Nirvana’s memorial parks. The parks and their structures are constructed following the principles of Feng Shui, and every burial plot and columbarium is carefully designed to render good fortune, prosperity and blessings to the descendants from their ancestors.
Maintenance and upkeep of the grounds is also a key factor in maintaining good Feng Shui, therefore, Nirvana has set up a maintenance trust fund, to ensure long-term maintenance of the parks and garden.
Burial plots amidst natural tranquility
Apart from excellent Feng Shui, Nirvana’s memorial parks are set amidst lush greenery, providing a tranquil, serene environment for the departed to rest in peace, and also a lovely place for visitors to reflect and contemplate as they pay their respects.
There are different types of burial plots to choose from. The Royal Family Burial Plot closely follows traditional Chinese thoughts and philosophies, where members of a family can be placed in close proximity, just like how falling leaves always land close to the tree’s roots. Togetherness is the key here, and you can choose to be laid to rest with your loved ones at the end of your journey in life. The design of the Royal Family Burial Plot is also considerably elevated and distinctively grand, adding to the spirit of reunion and in celebration of family.
Also glorifying and commemorating the notion of family is our Family Burial Plots. Individually personalized to convey different family stories, you can choose how the family can be remembered in the future, be it with a poem, or unique, special carvings.
Man and nature come together at our Double and Single Plots. The parks are designed to bring about a harmonious sense, where the landscaping is inspired by the natural surroundings. The regular plots are no less idyllic, letting the departed rest amidst serene nature that soothes the soul and calms the heart.
Inspired by the “Kingdom of Heaven”, our Christian Memorial Garden is a simple yet elegant and dignified resting place catering to those of the Christian faith. Orderly rows of burial plots, a wide selection of beautiful headstone, it is also set in a natural, tranquil and picturesque environment. Our Christian Memorial Garden also has a columbarium set within the vicinity.
World-class columbaria for all
Do you think that memorialising and honouring the departed in a columbarium sounds like it’s lacking in individuality and uniqueness? Think again. Nirvana’s columbaria are simply different. Characterised by supreme architecture of unparalleled magnificence and distinctive designs, they aren’t just rows and rows of walls anymore. Plus, it helps solve the problem of land scarcity.
Choose from columbaria which suits your preference and needs.
Luxurious columbaria, most notably Nirvana’s Ming Palace 3 is inspired by the Lingshan Brahma Palace in China, and doesn’t hold back on its pageantry. Filled with warmth and a touch of opulence, plus intricate sculptures adorning the halls, it makes a great choice for those looking for a luxurious place to call an eternal home.
Mostly white, bright and calm, Nirvana’s modern columbaria make a great choice for those who prefer a place with minimalistic elements. Vibrant, artistic lines set amidst an auspicious environment, the hall itself feels timeless and opulent.
If the outdoors is your preferred choice, and you appreciate ancient Chinese architecture, the multi-million ringgit Oriental Villa, a signature masterpiece of Nirvana Memorial Garden in Semenyih, should be considered. Surrounded by lush greenery and lovely waterways, this place provides a feeling of dignified peace for you and your loved ones.
Nirvana’s memorial parks offer not just a resting place, but also cater to a range of services, such as regular prayer services and enlightenment ceremonies.
Read more about pre-planning for your after-life matters, and consider the options available. Speak to an authorized agent to learn more, or have a virtual tour of Nirvana’s various memorial parks and centres.
Funeral Planning
Everyone, has their own way of bidding farewell to the world, and it is actually a blessing to be able to arrange a farewell ceremony for oneself, or even to hear a family member's heartfelt confession with one's own ears. We can't dismiss all of Wong's decisions just because we don't agree with anything he said or did in the past, let alone the fact that it was a closed-door pre-birthday farewell for himself, his family, his friends, and his fans in the way he aspires to be. Furthermore, neither the shooting of the music video nor the farewell ceremony caused any distress to any of the deceased and their families, nor did it delay any of the funerals, which is something we can be sure of.
As a professional funeral service provider, we have always refrained from disclosing details even though we are burdened with doubts, after all, that is our professionalism. In the eyes of the general public, the ceremony may seem fake and viewed from the perspective of “deception”, but those who attended know that all the details were carried out in accordance with the manner and process of a real ceremony.
The real scene, the contagious atmosphere, deepen the sense of valedictory ceremony, we can not help but say the true words, as those who were present, we believe that these words and tears are real. Farewell ceremony, never a farce, if we can borrow the real scene in advance, hear the people around you to say the most sincere words, and then use the rest of their time and strength to change their next life, why not? We shouldn't blur the focus of the whole pre-life valedictory ceremony.
The road of life education is not a good one. We have been walking it for many years, we have been groping and experimenting, trying everything we can to interpret life from different angles of thinking and to bring pre-life planning into society. We do everything we can to make people think about the meaning of life, about how to go on the last part of life, and to take good hold of hospice autonomy. Everyone, even the most squeamish, has the idea of ending their life well, even if it is just for a moment. However, the first step to a good death is to have some knowledge of death and make adequate preparations. If you can avoid it, death will come eventually, and if you can arrange for it in advance, why is it not a blessing?
Not everyone is so lucky to be able to make decisions for the last moment of their life. Who should make decisions for you when you fall into unconsciousness? Who should know your wishes? And who should know what to do with your funeral? Having suffered the loss of a loved one, you know what a heartbreaking feeling of helplessness and powerlessness it is to make final decisions for your family.
We do make more people start to think out of the shackles of thinking, for their own future planning. While you still have a healthy body and mind, think about what form you want to say goodbye to the world in the future, or what you still want to do, or what you want to say to the people you love. What people need to be afraid of is not death, but the fact that they have not really lived.
According to your faith as the premise to assist in planning to choose the appropriate wake service ceremony, Nirvana life plan (wake service package), urns, burial plot, coffin, paper products, funeral banquets etc., to lock in the budget in advance, to reduce the burden of people at the time of parting.
At my wake service, who will come to the funeral home to attend and pay their last respects? Who are those I does not want to invite?
Which last photo you wish to prepare? At my wake service, which type of floral decorations I like?
Funeral cost overruns can be effectively avoided through steps such as understanding what constitutes a cost, clarifying individual needs and budget ranges, cost planning, paying attention to practical advice and money-saving tips, as well as planning and communicating in advance, for e.g. amount of traditional money gift at a funeral (bereavement contribution). While allowing the deceased to rest in peace, it also leaves the living with more financial security and emotional comfort. Do I want the money received to be donated to charitable organizations and schools?
Do I want to give my loved ones the opportunity for open-casket viewings?
Who will deliver eulogy speech at my wake service? Before I die, who will recollect their memories of me as they read out their respective eulogies at the funeral hall? The words they recited will touch the hearts of those in attendance.
Do I want to prepare letters and thank you note in an envelope and wrote my wishes for my loved ones on the envelope or to record myself to say goodbye to my loved ones properly?
Do I want my family sings a farewell to me with one of my favorite songs or play music, hymns, poems, verses from Scriptures etc that I like?
Do I want my family covering my coffin with the flag and supporting the coffin?
The next step is to choose the burial method according to budget. The cost of different burial methods such as monumental cemeteries, sea burials and tree burials varies greatly, and choices need to be made according to personal preferences, cultural practices and financial ability. The traditional monument cemetery will cost slightly more, and the location, environment and size of the cemetery will also affect the cost.
Will
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Do I have something to thank my loved ones?
Do I have something to forgive my loved ones?
Do I have something to care concerning my loved ones?
Do I have something to say farewell to my loved ones?
Do I have something to say to my loved ones who might be depressed at the time of parting? How do I ensure that my love for them continues after I dies?
Do I have passages on filial piety, quotes, attitude towards life,philosophy etc to remind the people to remember the benevolence of their elders and to fulfil filial piety in a timely manner, in memory of their ancestors and pass on the virtue of filial piety to the next generation?
Do I have something to remind the people to remember me?
Do I want my children to inherit all of my wealth? What is a fair way to divide inheritance among children if an elderly parent does not specify amounts for each child? Do I want my employees to be gifted any of my companies? Have I created a number of trusts for the benefit of my heirs and a charity? Only if that is my wish. If not then I am free to leave my wealth to the people I want to leave it to. It’s up to each individiual to decide for themselves. Part of the decision may involve how big the estate is and each child’s needs. Say my estate consists of a pleasant suburban cape cod, a small savings account and a $1 million pension that I’m spending down. My healthy daughter makes $2 million a year in her law practice and owns three homes. My son is a public school teacher whose wife died and left him with three young children. What’s fair then? nstead, I still own the cape cod and small bank account, but have a heart condition that will require me to move to assisted living, straining my savings. If a parent leaves out one of their children in their will, what happens to that child's inheritance? Is it common for children to receive an inheritance from their parents? Is it solely the parent's decision to leave an inheritance, as long as they provide for their child during their lifetime? Should parents share the inheritance equally between their children? How do I disinherit a child in a will? From where I sit, I don’t think it would be fair to me when I die if the government limited how much of my estate that my children can inherit. What’s the point? To take the rest of my hard earned assets and give them to the government to distribute to others? No! I worked my entire life for everything that I have, and it’s my right to say who will inherit it when I die. If that’s my children, that’s my right. All my knowledge goes straight up to my first born son. A loving relationship between parents and children. We are in an era where a man doesn't even value his legacy anymore and value someone else is. And others are dictating How he should split his wealth. Just say you want some of the money. That money belongs to the parents. They can do whatever they want with it. They can give it to their kids, spend every last dime, spread it around among charities, or even give it to some random stranger. They get to choose. The money does not “belong” to the kids. No one “owes” their kids an inheritance. There are inheritance taxation laws. Although the exemption is quite high in the US, like the first 10 million or so, anything above that is taxed at a very high level, so the kids won’t get it all. In Canada, I believe the assets are added to that years income and taxed as such. Every country has a policy about how much can be passed onto the heirs. What is the norm for kids when it comes to inheritance from their parents? Can children demand half of their inheritance from the parent who is still living? Are parents legally obligated to give their money and assets (inheritance) to their children? Can children inherit nothing from their parents even if there is enough wealth to be inherited?What is a fair way to divide inheritance among children if an elderly parent does not specify amounts for each child? If a parent leaves out one of their children in their will, what happens to that child's inheritance? Is it common for children to receive an inheritance from their parents? Is it solely the parent's decision to leave an inheritance, as long as they provide for their child during their lifetime?Should parents share the inheritance equally between their children? How do I disinherit a child in a will?If parents give their adult children their inheritance and the child squanders it, can the parents ask for the inheritance back? What steps can parents take while alive to prevent inheritance disputes between their children? Is inheritance really a way for parents to control their children when they become adults? What are some ways for parents to divide inheritance fairly between children if they are unable to give one child more than the other? How should children divide up property among themselves if they are inheriting from their parents’ estate? Do children have any inheritance rights over their parents' property if they were not given anything while their parents were alive? When writing my will, should I give equal amounts to my children or should I do it based on their income and the amount of kids they have? I don’t want them to think I had favorites, but it is true that some of them are more financially well off.
Do I want to inscribe fifteen passages on filial piety, including famous classical quotes from historical figures like Sima Qian and Mencius on my a curved monument, consisting of stone stelae?